I asked him to move out 9/1, I am all confused about that now.
He never flipped a switch like this before, it probably is a lot of lip service anyways, it won't be good w/o the job tho, that was my security.
~~~~thanks everyone! uR, I plan on standing way back, I am also teaching him how he needs to treat me, no more demanding, he has no manners.
I don't know if this is a flip as much as it is a realization, like Linda said that nothing he does he working. This is a kinda bottoming out for him.
It does make it way to hard to keep my date without that steady income being direct deposited. I don't even know if he will make enough just for the house at this point.
This is where Nero's fear of poverty kicks in and my need for perfect bookkeeping shows me it's not good.
He has changed the game...did he beat me to it in fear? S22 said he see's H as a big ball of hurt and fear.
what about me?
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
