PS, thank you for the suggestion. I wish wife was in a better place in regards to her feelings towards me. It has recently become apparent that she still has a lot of anger and resentment. She is not in a position to be part of anything with me, even though it would be in our daughters best interests. Joint counseling to co-parent better would be very helpful. I will keep that tucked into my mind for the future. Thank you

GTO, I appreciate the words of support. I am trying to do the best I can, but I know I can do better. Wife sent me a text saying that all she ever wanted, and still wants, is to show daughter of a happy loving couple. She says that we showed her a very ugly model of a loving marriage.....Perhaps that is why she is pursuing the relationship with OM so quickly. To make up for lost time and set and example for daughter????


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8