Let me just add planet, start making plans with you and the kids for the weekends. Start GALing. My Gals involves the kids a lot and my W joins us most of the time. If you can GAL with others too the better.
Lose the fear planet you can do this.
Keep posting.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.