Sorry last night didn't go so well. Sounds like something is eating at your H. Seems to be a pattern with him coming home from work in a bad mood. Does he like his job? Is he where he wants to be career wise?
Sounds like he needs some kind of proper outlet for his anger, and possibly a sit down with some one to talk about his moods... Maybe some time in the future he'd be open to that? (whether it be a counselor, pastor, or wise friend/associate)
You probably did the right thing to stay out of the way so none of whatever he's going through became associated with you. Continue to the "peace" in this situation, in spite of your own pain.
I hope today is a better day for you!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope