. Mimi30, does sitting in Sbux by myself reading count? It is not "big fun" or anything but I have been doing that once a week for the past few weeks and it's my alone time for sure.
Of course!
Originally Posted By: lost_hope
I got my hair cut and lightened today. My MIL noticed, I wonder if he will. I like it so even if he doesn't it is a good pick-me-up during this pregnancy. [quote=lost_hope] He called today and every time he does I get so excited and pick up forgetting that things are not normal with us. I have to learn how to not be so available and not pick up every single time he calls. The call was short but kinda sad bc we both know that these are not what our normal conversations are like.
I haven't heard from my H in 6 days. All week when phone rings or a text message comes through I grab it thinking it's him because that's what I am used to, but it's no longer him.
Even thought things aren't normal, when your H calls, let him hear that you're excited he called, maybe even tell him that seeing it was him calling made your day...try to stay upbeat even if he sounds sad.
Originally Posted By: lost_hope
God, won't you please send my lover and friend back to me? Please ... I am breaking down crying now and I haven't in weeks.
(((hugs)))
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
