Two roads diverged in a yellow wood...

[chasingpavements]

Well, ribfest is cancelled now. H had a couple of teeth extractions on Wednesday. He was feeling fine yesterday. Today he called to say he is in major pain and wants to cancel ribfest. He also talked to another person that he works with that was supposed to be coming and he isn't feeling well either. He wants me to email everyone and tell them it's cancelled. I was almost in tears when he told me we have to cancel the party.

I lost it on the phone with him. I was fighting back crying. I told him I was upset that he only calls me when he needs me to do something for him. I told him that he never talks to me around the home anymore and that I haven't done anything wrong. He agreed that it's not my fault and told me he would be home early. (he is coming home early because he doesn't feel well). So now instead of looking forward to the party I have to look forward to him sulking around the house on Sat. night.

I let out a good cry after I got off the phone with him.