We are still in limbo and not much has changed. H seems to be grumpy most days. Yesterday he came home and make a joking comment to me right away and seemed happy. I thought to myself, well we are going to have a fine evening! I tried to still give him distance around the house and just focused on taking care of the children. He left soon after to go to volleyball. I brought him out a beer on the deck when he got back and he just sat there all quiet. So I went inside with my beer, for MYSELF to escape.
There are still some things I am unsure about with DB'ing. I have been 'testing and checking' to see what is working vs not working. So far, it seems nothing is working! haha. Bringing him the beer on the deck I was testing to see if we could have a normal conversation... apparently not! ha. Sometimes he is in the mood and we can do little things like that, like playing scrabble or watching tv together. I don't think that DB'ing means to not do anything fun together? That is where I am confused. If he is willing should we still be trying to do nice things together? Sometimes he is in a good enough mood where we can do things, but lately he just wants to be alone, it seems.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
