...don't say that out loud, don't say that out loud
Thanks for my morning chuckle FY
When I have those moments with H I feel like I must look like a fish out of water - mouth opening, shutting, opening, shutting. Lol, sometimes I even put my hand over my mouth just to be sure no ill-advised statements slip out.
Another possible positive of the "talks" is that they are a change. They are a sign of movement, of life. Too early to tell if the change means progress or regress, but at least you know things are indeed percolating.
Take care!
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.