Carlotta got you mixed up with Hairdog in reference to this:
Quote: I was on my way up to bed and walked up to her and said, "Can I have a hug?" She looked at me with, what I would almost call disgust. You see, when I ask for something like this, she says I use a "whimper-y" voice, and it really turns her off. Of course, I think I'm asking in a normal, modulated voice. But why should this make a difference anyway? I am asking for something I want, and is it so hard to provide a hug?
It's hard to know for sure how you sound when asking for love. I know I've sensed the little boy in my H when he has asked for something but I don't necessarily find it a turn off. It's more of a flag (to me) that I need to show more love. Mind you, if he ALWAYS sounded wimper-y, that might be a different story!
