I think that mature people make a decision to love their partner, day after day. Love takes work. I think all of us on this forum who are Standing have made a conscious decision to love.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17