Almost all LBS's get to decide on the relationship in the end, and for those that have not yet gotton to decide, it is not yet the end. I really like this statement, it gives me hope 2old, don't worry about the D bit, she may not file yet. I don't know how it works over there, but over here you have to pay. My H can't afford to file yet. He told me he is doing, but so far I've heard nothing from his solicitor. Don't worry about this until it happens. It's not a nice thing to have to go to and every day when an envelope comes through that door, you think is this it? However if you've got a plan then it makes it a little less painful. my plan is 1. Get myself a solicitor lined up in case he does file and 2. Ask the solicitor for a mediator. The mediator will also determine what caused the break up in the first place, so you'll finally discover the truth. Remember at this moment in time it is all guesswork, you don't know why your W left. Work on the areas of your life that you don't like about yourself. I would love it if my H said to the mediator that I always have a messy house and the mediator saw that my house was clean and tidy Also if your spouse refuses a mediator, then it will go against them in a court. Listen to what Cadet and the others are saying to you as well, they make a lot of sense
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
2old, don't worry about the D bit, she may not file yet. I don't know how it works over there, but over here you have to pay. My H can't afford to file yet. He told me he is doing, but so far I've heard nothing from his solicitor. Don't worry about this until it happens.
