Hear, hear, Corri! I agree with everything you say, including your comments about CeMar. Constantly complaining to the world while refusing to muster the guts to confront the ONLY PERSON that counts is a recipe for divorce and very frustrating to witness.
I agree 100% with your advice to SuperDave. Something he said about his wife referring to his "whimper-y" voice really got to me. My X used to use a little boy voice with me. Just like I was mommy.
But I think that his W is crying out for boundaries! I can only believe that she will respect him for drawing them and sticking to them.
CeMar, you have talked incessantly about what HD men want. Let me tell you what LD women want -- A CONFIDENT MAN. A man who will stand up to them, not take their crap. I believe with a confident man the desire comes back.