//If we want them back, we are going to somehow find a way to be more "in love"able//
Or, maybe we should raise our standards and look for someone who has maturity > 17 yrs old. This view of love is immature and chidish and I personally don't want to be committed to someone who has these views.
For those in MLC the search for those "in love" feelings of limerance can be a temporary thing, not something they'll long for forever.
Real love tells us not to give up so easily, even when our spouse is acting in a manner that is immature.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
