Don't come around here no more

[AJM]

I am just worried that I will run out of steam before he does.

Nah. You won't. How do I know? 'Cause you're not crazy and they are your kids and it's your life. The world is not against you, WH. Just your soon to be ex. That's par for the course. And you're up to the task.

The thing is perspective. If you could see what I see, this wouldn't bother you so much. But as it is, you're living it right now and you do see too closely. If that makes sense.

When all is said and done, you won't have to fight much longer, directly. There will be skirmishes, but you can choose to stay out of those. And you'll see that he's not the prize he was once was. He'll be something you try very hard to stay clear of. Over time, you'll get good at that and get to where you like that

Put the fears away, WH. What is going to happen will. You'll deal with it as it comes and you'll do so with a lot of integrity and grace. It's in your nature.

Let the little things go and keep focused on what's important. The skirmishes take a lot out of you and aren't worth it. They bring you to his level and are draining.

If you're going to fight a war, and I don't recommend nor see a reason to fight, then you need to fight it your way, not his. Just sayin'

You're doing fine, but it is draining you. Choose your battles carefully and know you have limited resources to apply. Let the small things go as much as you can, WH.

Peace,
AJ