I know everyone is going to hate this answer but hear it goes...

I would open it, not to snoop but to see if its junk mail. I am guessing its junk mail. If its not junk mail you will know rather quickly then you should not read the contents and send xH an email saying he got a letter at your place & you opened it accidentently.

The reason I suggest this unethical move is because I believe our mental health is the most important thing and any time wasted figuring out why this letter is being sent to your home when its probably junk is wasted time & can really set you back.

Congrats to your son!

My kids are much younger but I always think about the happy times I will share with them in the future like weddings and babies and that really motivates me to keep it together.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13