Bea,

Maybe the news of your son's engagement (btw, congrats to them) HAS put him over the edge...in a good way. Just a thought. That is really nuts alright. Do you know for sure that he and the ow2 or ow3 or whichever ow he was with, are still together? Do you suppose that he's on his own now and has had time to move along further on his journey? It's possible that he sending you a message and is looking for an excuse to reconnect via his mail. If he's reconnecting with the kids then you're next! I'm an optimist so don't pay any attention to me. wink

There are as many possible reasons as there are mlcers. I've read that no two are alike in the way that they reconnect. I'm anxiously waiting to see if he contacts you. I'm not sure what I'd do. Whatever you do, don't use your son as a messenger. Either let him contact you or if you are ready to have contact with him, send an email telling him that you have a piece of mail addressed to him. Look at the rookie (me) giving the Vet advice. LOL

Happy Anniversary. Remember the good that came from your marriage and let the rest go. There were more good years than bad so focus on those and the wonderful children that resulted from those happy times.

Welcome back, I've missed reading your posts.


Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama