This is why you need to keep the focus on you. I'm assuming you did not give her the money - I hope not.
You love her. I know that, you want to rescue her and be ther to help her and show her that you can be the rock you weren't before the bomb. It's not time now.
You got a glimpse................
What you need to do is get your head up, brush yoursel off and get the focus back on you......get on the bike, walk and get your ass back to volunteering.
Successful relationships happen when two strong individuals come together. We know it's a roller coaster , we are buckled in but were not in control of our wives.
You love her. You fell in love with her all over again
It's not over.......in the meantime you can't break
It's a weekend in ca..........find a 5k walk/run - its time
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
