Don't come around here no more

[wishing, hoping]

Hey KML

I know there is nothing I can do once the divorce is final, but it's apparent with this new evidence that H is trying to kick me out and bring OW in. I am hoping the judge recognizes that.

There is no money for me to move with. H has emptied the bank accounts. There isn't even $100 in the account right now. If the judge says I should leave I want a stipulation that I have time to find a place and support as well. Rent here for a three bedroom place is $1000 and up. I can't afford that. And I can't buy anything with the mortgage and car and credit card on my credit report.

It's not his parenting style that is the issue. Its his judgement or lack thereof that concerns me. He can do all the physical things necessary to act as a parent, but the stability and unconditional love is not there. There are sommany reasons.

If I'm going to fight I need to do it now, not after the divorce. It will be too late then and I don't want to have regrets.

H thinks he has me over a barrel. Now he doesn't want to take on the credit card debt or the second mortgage unless I agree to 50/50 placement and what H wants to pay for support and no maintenance. H wants what he wants and will not take anything less.

WH