Before I ever heard of DBing, my doctor told me about his friends who got divorced. They remained civil, and started being friends, and communicating more and more. Eventually they remarried. It was the first DB story I ever heard and probably gave me the little spark of hope and the wisdom to not be bitter and angry, like I was with my first ex. Anyway, I thought I'd share that story.
We are able to have nice, simple communications, via FB msg, txt, etc. about the house. She thanked me for sending the curtain, and asked about some other curtain related business. I just replied with a friendly joke about curtains always being too long or too short (we've done a lot of curtain shopping/fitting together, with all the moves we've made).
It's hard, but I try to remember that this is an important thing, being able to communicate at all. Many don't even have that right now.
Was a bad day for me in that I slept too much again and let my blood sugar get a bit low. Bit rainy, but I'll try to get a walk in. Need to get sleep/work back on track!
A few more steps in the marathon! Staying the course.
