I am not a pro...I do think the beginning is ok. He is relationship testing. After that, you must let it go.
I know you are very new to the site, have you read the books? When you first start DBing, we do it just to save our M and it really seems like a game to get our S back. However, once you really start to understand detaching, and really start to look at your own behaviors, you will start to get it.
EA - if it has been going on for months it is most likely PA. I'm sorry, I told my H for 2 months it was an EA and it had been a PA from day one. We weren't having sex from day one but we were kissing and hanging out for weeks and then the sex came.
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as far as her medical condition, I suggest looking for a support group. I have a s w/one and I am on two private fb groups and have met people from all over the world who have children with this rare condition. It is so helpful to share info and learn from each other - just like this site.
as far as her being his priority, how he spends his time with her, etc. You cannot control that and if you try to it will hurt your M even further.
What your H needs to see is your growth, your PMA and your GAL.
You can do this!!
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
