Wife called today, to ask MORE questions about our family members motorcycle. Again, I expressed to her that she really should be talking directly to him. For some reason, unbeknownst to me, she feels this way is easier.....
While she was on the phone, she asked how daughter was doing. I decided I would let her know, so I relayed the story from yesterday. Wife almost sounded like she didn't believe me. She said "well, daughter has never said anything like that to me. She is my main priority". I guess she should rethink her priorities, because anyone with any common sense would realize that divorce is not in our childs best interest, nor is it something that daughter wants. where as, WORKING on fixing the marriage is. What a great model it would be for daughter, to actually work on resolving our marital issues. Regardless, wife is on her own journey. I am simply not getting involved with it anymore. I really almost regret speaking to her about our daughter. It is pointless and only adds another level of conflict. It's sad
