Don't come around here no more

[wishing, hoping]

Hello all -

As an FYI I decided to pursue primary placement of the children. I have tried to work with H long enough and it's either his way or the highway. It's time I put my foot down. He'll be angry, but that's nothing new.

H is too overconfident and cocky. He thinks the judge will kick me out and allow the kids around OW. He already emailed me and asked me to change weekends with him so he could take the kids camping. He even went so far as to tell me OW would be there too, if the stipulation was lifted and if her back wasn't hurting too badly. In fact, he went so far as to go ahead and reserve the campsite before he even asked me. Another coincidence...the day they leave for camping is the day we have the temporary order. Isn't that convenient?

I didn't reply yet to his request. I don't have a problem switching weekends so the kids can camp with their dad. I do have a problem with OW being there. But if the stipulation is lifted, there isn't much I can do, except cry. Once we are divorced, I can't do anything, but we are still married so right now I can. And I will.

I will do what I can to protect my kids.

WH