Hi again Cadet, Thanks for posting. I will ask of you some things here. You mention time is the gift she has given me. The problem there is As of 10/01 she will be eligible to file for D, whether she does or not is not certain. I also understand that it would actually be better if she actually showed anger towards me which would indicate feelings. At this point I get no emotions from her. This would indicate a complete lack of care correct? Therefore, I cant foresee your very interesting statement about how almost all LBS's get to determine the end result. I wonder how you come to that thought also? Patience is so damn difficult but right now I'm keeping quiet and only responding to anything she might email. Which has been nothing in over a week. Are you of the opinion I stay no contact unless contacted by her and if so how long should no contact go if she stops emailing me completely? Weeks? months? As I said earlier today is the 3 month mark since we seen each other or spoke on the phone. Earlier that fateful morning we were talking having breakfast etc etc. Then that very evening it all went bad. I understand she had this planned out but to be so nice one minute then shut me out completely seems so unbelieveable. Its just not normal for people to do. Being 900 miles from her now doesn't give much hope to 180 or much else. Yes, I understand do things for me and I am getting there at this point. But the fact remains, I love my W and would like to R.
Thanks for all your words of wisdom. They are much appreciated.
