TIME, as you read in my normal welcome posts, it is a GIFT that you have been given.
PATIENCE, yes it is needed.
It is my experience that for your marriage to be reconciled, if that is what you are looking to do, that it will take a LOT of TIME. It may appear to you that it broke overnight,and I was certainly of the same opinion when I first arrived here that is not the likely scenario. The solution is not going to be quick.
When you make your changes you make them for YOU. Not to win your spouse back.
Let me also say the following with certainity. Almost all LBS's get to decide on the relationship in the end, and for those that have not yet gotton to decide, it is not yet the end.
Yup, most LBS are FIXERS, pursurers and looking for that magic button that they are going to press that will make this all better. It does not work that way.
Rick1963 was telling you to stop waiting for answers that may never come. I am saying the answers will come but not in your timeframe.
I hope that helps.
Keep asking questions, I will check in again later.
