He understands that if he does t respond he doesn't get an opinion. I am the one doing the work and getting sh$t done so step up or step outta the way. .
I needed to read this. I spend so much time trying to accommodate him, help him feel involved in the baby stuff etc. If he can't make it a priority to reply why do I continue to make involving him a priority?
And I did end up paying the bill even though it was something he should have paid. It was a lowsy $50 and looking back I should have just paid it to begin with rather than asking him for months if/when he was going to pay. I wasted so much energy just because I didn't want to step on his toes.
BD: Aug 2012 Separated since May 2013 S born Aug 2013 Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out' H is/was actively seeing someone?
