Yes...tugs at the heart strings... and I sometimes feel dumb faking it all the time cause this is my husband. The man we are supposed to be able to talk to about anything in the world. And right now we can't....doesn't sound like great marriage communication to me...but I guess we have to do what we have to do. I may not have great advice for you right now...but I'm listening!
Yes, it is weird to have to be the one making all of the changes, etc., but like you said, I guess we have to do what we have to do! And I don't have much advice to give anyone yet either, but I am also here and listening!
Originally Posted By: lost_hope
My H does this all the time. We go between calm silence (in which we don't say much to each other but at least we are not arguing) and his moods (which take all of me not to react to). His moods make me feel bad bc I think "wow, I don't even have to do anything and he's just "that" unhappy with me and us and our marriage." I feel like I'm in a nightmare sometimes.
I hope you did end up feeling better yesterday and hope you have a good day today.
Yeah, I know what you mean. It s*cks!!!
And thank you! I finally got out of my funk by the evening and have had an okay day today so far. Not super up, but not super down, so I'll take it!
Me: 27 H: 27 Together: 11, M: 3 S 2 BD: 06/24/13 Living together H: EA - unknown current status Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR) Back and forth we go...
