SA,

I would suggest talking to her about it in person, rather than sending an email, that way you can ask her right out what her intentions were/plans were. Perhaps you misinterpreted what her plans were? Then, after she told you I would simply state that it doesn't make sense for her to entertain at your house, since she is no longer living there.

BTW.. does she have a key to your place? Does she call before coming over to your place, and knock before entering? Or does she still come right in as if it is still her place?


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.