OK the Wife just invited a friend over to our house on Friday evening. WTF? she's not living there anymore. I don't want to pressure her on the relationship, but I want to establish what being separated means.
Here's how I intend to reply, any comments on whether it is appropriate?
"WIFE,
I'm a little confused abou you inviting FRIEND over. If we're separated, I don't see us entertaining guests together? And it's probably not good for you to entertain at the OTHER FRIEND'S HOUSE YOUR STAYING AT. And if we're separated, I don't see you coming over to entertain somebody individually while I'm there.
Maybe we're just not communicating our plans with each other, and we probably need to agree on what living apart means. Unless you plan on moving back home.
If you want we can discuss this tonight.
Let me know what you intend before I meet with FRIEND this afternoon, in case we have to retract the invitation.
