Just to add to my last post. There was a down side to falling for an HD woman and the reason I turned her down in the end. I just never felt as if I could trust her. Her line between love and hate was thin and she would storm off in an instant. Also she was always late for rendezvous, phoned me constantly including when I was at home which got very dangerous. She told me she wasn't a "bunny burner" but I was glad my kids had no pet bunnies.