FY your sitch is strange because it really just seems like your w is in deep depression.
I hear what you say about the passion and someone earlier talked about touching. It doesn't have to be holding hands or putting your arm around her. It can be incidental touching too. Do you know what her love language is? Sometimes just by doing that can help bring them around. I realized I was way off base there.
Maybe try and talk to her more, not necessarily r talk but shooting the sh!t.
I know when my h was deepest in his depression he didn't want to talk but that was also probably when he was deep with ow too. I think she needs her space to figure it out but I think you're doing great just letting her know you're there for her. I don't know if it would do harm or not to also let her know that you won't be there forever?
That is one of those things that works for some but will scare others. I think it can help them along if they get stuck for too long. I don't think the time is right for you because you still seem to have a lot of patience left. I can tell that you care for her so deeply. Hold on! You're doing awesome!
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out