This selective responsiveness by my H to things I need a reply to is killing me.

I'm sorry but if I email you a question I expect a response. These are not emotional life changing decisions, but I need to make plans!

Does this day of the week work for you to help w/ our son this fall, i need to know so i can finalize daycare paperwork.... silence.
Is your mom still coming to stay at my house or did you ask her not to come like you were considering.... need to know so I can prepare for company.... Silence.
Did you mail a check to so and so like you said you would, just want to confirm our past due balance has been taken care of.... Nothing.

But then when it comes to questions about irrelevant things that don't matter he'll reply within minutes to my email.

I'm trying not to pester or nag for answers, but he's really making me crazy responding to some things and completely ignoring others. I want nothing more than to be completely dark, I just hate having to bring things up several times to get the info I need. Just answer me so i can move on with my life will ya?! Sheesh!

BD: Aug 2012
Separated since May 2013
S born Aug 2013
Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out'
H is/was actively seeing someone?