CAdet, Can you explain what you mean by the TIME element of this is not something to overlook?
I also wonder what this means as well Cadet 2old, I think you should take note of the 2 posters above. Make comments by all means but don't over analyse them in your posts. Think of the positives, she is living miles away from you and yet she is still communicating via email. Even when you've not been sending her emails first, she initiated sending you emails on a few occasions. It is frustrating that you don't know why she left. My H didn't tell me why he left either, but there have been clues. Has she told/nagged you a lot of times about the same thing? Is there anything that you were doing that she didn't like? Is there anything that you weren't doing? These are all clues and should be the 180s that you work on. For instance, I've found out recently that my H was unhappy about our house being untidy and needing a bit of a clean. I have made this one of my 180s, but haven't got very far, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
2old, I think you should take note of the 2 posters above. Make comments by all means but don't over analyse them in your posts. Think of the positives, she is living miles away from you and yet she is still communicating via email. Even when you've not been sending her emails first, she initiated sending you emails on a few occasions.
