SA, I also admire you for setting the boundary with your W and sticking to it. Right now in my situation I am also trying to figure out some boundaries that I may need to set later on down the road... since things seem to always be getting crazier! I do not want to get taken advantage of and walked all over.
That is great that you are able to go sailing so often, that is a great GAL!
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.