Yes, I've recited some of the things from the book. She said these exact words to me right after... "I don't need books to get better, you do, I'm getting better on my own."
I've also written a letter to her (more than once) about how making love to her is an emotional need and not just a sexual need. The last one was on Valentine's Day, where I invited her to bed sex-free for a night of cuddling. She got home at 3:00am after going to the local casino.
