Keep what's best for the kids at the forefront of the conversation. She probably is at her wit's end, 2 kids under 5 can be a handful. She works FT, right?
You did fine. See what happens when you think! Did you see how she started thinking and trying to come up with a solution?
When you talk with her in person tell her what you need in terms of consistency you might let her know that you will be available to swap times or help out in unusual circumstances.
How far is the drive?
Just one little reminder:
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I honestly didn't think she would have stopped there, normally she would have kept it going.
You both would have kept is going. You stayed in control and the conversation was controlled.
Keep building on the positives.
What is FT? She doesn't work.
It pays to think.
The drive is 1 hour 10 mins on a really good run but tends to be 1 hour 25/30 mins.
We both would have kept it going, I have noticed that and tried to change accordingly. I didn't expect it from her too.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
