Thank you, WH. I'm praying for you too. After so much anger, fear, resentment it's amazing how easily the two attorneys and I worked together to come up with a support order that xh agreed to and we were both satisfied with. If only we could have done this a year ago. Better yet, if only xh would have slowed down and given our marriage a chance the last 20 months could have been so different.
WH, keep the faith that peace will come in your family. It may not work out the way you originally wanted. I understand how terribly painful that is. I'm still very much grieving for what's been lost, but am grateful for the peace I have today even if it is temporary.