You're so lucky you have a cute D-ed guy, if only to help in cases like this. It may not work to get your result (though I hope it does) but it probably will pique his interest to show that other men are interested. (So many men think we are undesirable after we have babies ... I know my H thinks that though he won't outright say it).

You know it's innocent so you shouldn't feel bad at all. I think your response was brilliant ... let him guess. I agree you had no need to defend it, and the sarcastic response (which would have been my first thing to do) doesn't really do much at all. This is so much better.I hope you have a good week, you sound really good and love the PMA, though I know it hurts.

**praying for a cute D-ed guy to enter my life ... lol**

Me 35 H 34
DS- newborn 8/13
T 8.5 M 7
H's EA - 10/11
INILWY 5/13
DBing 6/13
Don't know WTF to do 1/14