I appreciate the reality check Val. I am definitely doing my work. But I also firmly belive my SBXW is in crisis. I've been able to see a pattern with her for the last 3-4 years. SD... I was most definitely drawn to the analogy.
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13