I think we’ve established that I need to grieve and move on but I can't do that while W and I are s still in the same house.
That situation is not likely to change until the D is final. My inner turmoils are fuelled by this, I need space and have reality hit me so I can grieve.
WenikiTiki, you are spot on with your assessment and have highlighted my inner turmoil
Originally Posted By: WenikiTiki
Don't worry about what undies are on the line, just do your best to ignore, not react. You will keep wanting that miracle, don't let the "what if?" overwhelm you. I kept reading things into all my X's actions. In retrospect I think every kindness I perceived him to have granted me in the past two years has just been him placating me for his own comfort.They moved on a long time ago. They were done being married and we weren't.
