(Funny typo, too. I'm pretty sure you meant to say "I'm not saying sleep around.")
Don't worry about what undies are on the line, just do your best to ignore, not react. You will keep wanting that miracle, don't let the "what if?" overwhelm you. I kept reading things into all my X's actions. In retrospect I think every kindness I perceived him to have granted me in the past two years has just been him placating me for his own comfort.
They moved on a long time ago. They were done being married and we weren't. All we can do is take this at our own pace.
Take care of you. Detach as much as you can. Aloha!
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
