Originally Posted By: MrBond
AGAIN this is the part that you can't stop. He WAS NOT blaming your M. YOU keep saying that. He said he had some things on his mind. Why do you keep thinking it's about the M? You are going to drive yourself crazy and push him away.


I guess cause when this all started it was him telling me that he is not happy with the past few months and constantly stating his need for more affection and a better sex life. I find that M problems? If he just has things on his mind why wont he talk to me about them?

And yes I feel like i'm already crazy and suffering from this...This happened last time to me as well. I just need to sleep...I need a minute without this on my mind, a minute where I'm not scared of our next conversation and whether its good or bad....

Thanks MrBond....


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14