Linda, I seem to have lost track of your post, but you refer to "the Russian tramp." I have dubbed W's OM "the contractor." :-(
Did good GAL activity for still being home bound. Went for a pretty good walk, then did some exercise when I got home, then did 15 minute meditation (guided, via MP3).
Was a tough morning with a lot of back/forth with W about finances. I was right about her not understanding how much I was actually paying for still, and she sure doesn't have any qualms about playing the income disparity and asking me for stuff. She got much more civil when the financial situation sunk in. I can't even imagine what it's like to tell someone how perfect the OM is, how you've never been happy in the M, but it's ok that you mostly supported me for years and I want more of that, thanks. Geez.
I have read the WAW chapters and watched Michele's vids on YouTube enough that I do get that this is not unexpected behavior, nor is her accusing me of drama if I say anything that contradicts her feelings, but to feel free to lash out at me any time for anything.
I got back on track, DB-wise, and we got back to discussing my lack of transportation. She did try to make suggestions about how we can get another car, who should drive which, etc. She offered again to bring me some groceries or stuff from the pharmacy.
Weird. For some reason our conversations seem to have gone from email to text to Facebook messaging. So, basically, all of our personal problems are being archived and parsed for their advertising value. Seriously, FB is starting to show me adds for dating sites and divorce stuff. :-(
