I think the Russian airline is Aeroflot and yes there is an airline called Finnair. The last time I flew to a country that required a Visa the airline checked to be sure that our passports and Visa were valid. They said that if they don't check and the documents aren't in order and the authorities in that country didn't accept the documents then the airline would be responsible for transporting the person back to the city that they flew from at their expense. Wouldn't that be funny! He gets there and then doesn't have a valid Visa so he has to come home without seeing the RT or Russia! If it's Aeroflot, they could be in cahoots with the company that your h is getting his visa through. He may be allowed to enter the country for a "fee" if things aren't in order.
The check didn't bounce but I need another one for some other things that are due early in August. I may take the money out of a reserve acct that's designated for emergencies or things we haven't budgeted for or even the acct that his payroll check is deposited into. Won't he be surprised. I guess I owe him the courtesy of telling him that I'm doing that or give him the option of writing another check.
I don't think I posted this but a few weeks after my h went back to work in April, 2 separate envelopes came from his healthcare provider with what appeared to be healthcare cards. One of them had my h's name on it and one had the ow's name on it!!!! I did the unthinkable and trashed the envelope that had the ow's name on it. We are both covered under another provider from my previous employer with much better coverage and much lower deductibles and copays. In the mail today was another envelope from his employers provider. It appears to have 2 cards in it. I debated on whether I should trash it and acting as if it never arrived. He is scamming the healthcare provider and could lose his job over it. So now I have to decide again. Do I report him to his employer, confront him or should it magically disappear again? I'm leaning toward just letting him have the envelope and letting it go. If he loses his job it will put him in a very bad place mentally. Not to mention the fact that he won't be able to finance his new lifestyle, the ow and love nest. What a shame! So, what do you all think? Rat him out or take the high road? I'm leaning toward the high road but the devil in me says report him.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
