Originally Posted By: britt54
I know I can't fix him...but I just want to be there to support and make sure he doesn't jump the gun and make the wrong decision by leaving.


You can't make him make that choice; that's a textbook codependent response.

If he wants to go then he'll go, and it doesn't have to be because you didn't kiss him enough. You stick to your changes and let him deal with his stuff.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."