I know he wants more affection from you and you want to provide it for him, but maybe now is not the time to be chasing him because there is obviously more to his problems than meets the eye. If he was a little bit older I'd wonder if he wasn't having a midlife crisis.
I agree....last week it was cause of me...my lack of affection, our struggling sex life....but this week has been great for that, and he noticed and thanked me and appreciates it and is still gone. So there HAS to be something more to it!
I know I can't fix him...but I just want to be there to support and make sure he doesn't jump the gun and make the wrong decision by leaving.
I agree with the midlife crisis...I actually thought last time it was like a quarter life crisis or something cause he was 25. But again it has hit like a ton of bricks. I know the touch and affection hasn't come out of nowhere but whatever else is bothering him has....
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
