Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

[Lll54]

"but no touch from his hands."

This is an example of overanalyzing.

Breathe and JUST LET IT GO.

"Like sounds like his priorities are way out of line."

To whose standards? Yours? Stop interpreting what he is doing. You're mindreading so badly right now.

Again...you put me in my place. Yes you are right right right.
The only think getting me through the day is my kids distraction and the fact he still talks about life, and our trip, and our fridge, and he took his buddy downstairs to see our new carpet today. I feel those are positives? Please somebody tell me those are not the usual actions of a WAS. Please!