One giant leap forward! - Part 3

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Do you believe that sex too early will derail the process and definitely not help at all?

I feel that if I do withhold just to prove a point I will come across as petty. Sounds daft saying it but it does. It's like I'm lording control over her.

Putting sex aside for a second do you also think this applies to other things, like having dinner together, spending time talking?

I'd like to answer those questions, but I believe it's more important to hear what you think. You made a decision about financing the first session of MC. So, based on what you've learned from past experiences and what your main goal is today, how would you answer those question?

I would like to say something impressively insightful that you would agree with based on what I should have learned and what my goals are but I'm not there yet.

I do think that sex should maybe be more a gradual extension on how we are as a couple rather than just doing it because we can or want to based on how horny we are.

Before W and I had dinner and talked on Sunday I was under the impression that it may have been a mistake. I found it quite productive and would be interested in participating in more of the same should the situation arise.