Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

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In fact, I'd go back and reread your old thread entirely. There's a lot of good advice, especially since it looks like many of the same issues are coming up again.

Thanks Trent. I think I will...his sad, depressive self feels all but too much the same

If he wants to be a grumpy snarky ass, leave him alone. If he wants to act more like your husband, then treat him like it. You get a say in what your marriage is going to be like just as much as he does.

This is so true...but right now I'm striving for anything from him to help me get through the day. Its such a battle.

This may sound really silly...but he has been in intense training for hockey season and hasn't been eating. He doesn't understand healthy eating....but that's not the issue. I find when he doesn't eat and he is starving he is in a terrible terrible mood. As soon as he eats he is better. Also the same with sleep. I let him sleep in late yesterday and we had an amazing day! He thanked me for the sleep and was so responsive and great. Then he stays out till 3 am and gets to bed at 4 am and is now having a terrible day again....wtf.