Thank you for your support digdeeper. What advice though would you give regarding my situation? I contacted her about once a month but it was typically trying to reason and arguing about the EA which she now feels wasn't a big deal and was a fantasy even though she now has a PA with him. Her details have changed greatly but the response has been the same. I argued, apologized, and begged. The worst possible combination, I drove her into his arms. It's been over six months of arguing and everything else. Now it has been about three months of NC.

Can I do anything? What should I do? How can I initiate contact in anyway?


together 7+yrs
Married 3
Me 33
W 33
no kids
BD 9/12
MC 9/12
W leaves MC 10/12
W moves out 11/12
Divorce 2/13
W moves 5/13
NC 05/13
D final 8/13