MrBond, Thank you for pointing that out. I am trying to keep up the PMA but you are right, I should not have said that. I still need to learn to shut my mouth.
It is hard for me to act like I am still the H she would be a fool to leave and, at the same time, let her know that I am not happy with her decision.
After she dropped this D bomb on me said to her, "it took a lot of courage to make this decision however, I dont agree with it. It affects a lot of people."
SISH,
Thank you too. It is hard to accept her decision. I too have a bit of hope. Accepting that she is leaving is very difficult for me but I am trying. Its hard to completely detach emotionally when I am still married and living together with her and our kids.
The past couple of days have been very normal at home with the caveat that she wants the D. It almost feels like we are a family again. I know that its not what she wants so I will keep working on acceptance.
